Wall That Heals Arrived In Wisconsin

'The Wall that Heals'

By Superior Telegram 

Vietnam veteran Bob Rich, of Superior, salutes as the Halvor Lines trucks carrying the "The Wall that Heals," a 250-foot replica of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, as it rolls down East Second Street in Superior on Wednesday morning.

“I lost a lot of friends over there,” Rich said when talking about serving from 1963-68.
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Mom Missed Wedding Because Church Banned PTSD Service Dog

Mother misses son's wedding when church bans service dog
WTOL News
July 19th 2017

QUINCY, MI (WWMT/CNN) – An upset mother blames a Michigan church for missing her son’s wedding because she says the church would not allow her service dog to attend with her.

Everywhere Mary Douglas goes, her service dog Stella follows. The woman is living with post-traumatic stress disorder and has had the service dog for almost two years.

But Stella wasn’t allowed to step into a church in Quincy, MI, which Douglas says ultimately caused her to miss her son’s wedding. She says she had a fear of relapse if she went to the area without her dog.

"I've cried a lot. It was a very sleepless night last night,” Douglas said.

The mother says missing the wedding is sparking emotions she needs Stella to calm.

"I've sacrificed as any single mom, any mom really, does for their children. For that not to be reciprocated, that honor not to be due to a mom on her son's wedding day, it's heartbreaking,” Douglas said.

Pastor Robert Montgomery says Douglas still could have been there for her son. He says the church gave three options for the dog a couple months before the wedding.
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The Only Number You Need on Veteran Suicide is Yours

More Than "Just a Number" to Us

Combat PTSD Wounded Times

Kathie Costos

July 19, 2017

Headline "Unique movement aims to curb vet suicide?" 

Seriously? A "unique" movement?

On WLKY News, that was the headline, which it turned out, wasn't much of a story, nor factual.

This is the image,

As you can see that "22" was followed by,

"According to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, about 20 vets commit suicide every day in this country."

We'll start with that part. Is it 22 or 20? Shouldn't that matter? Shouldn't it matter that when the VA had the number of veterans going from survivor or combat to committing suicide, it was limited data from just 21 states. Guess they didn't matter enough that folks doing the talking didn't bother reading the report itself. 

I've actually heard "awareness" raisers say the words, "Its just a number" when trying to defend their use of a slogan, as if they were not worthy of reading the report itself.

When the VA did the followup report, the number was reduced to 20 a day, but for those of us actually paying attention and regarding the report as important enough to read, we knew it was the same number as the VA used for 1999.

And in the 2016 report there was this,

Key findings from this year’s report include: 

 In 2014, an average of 20 Veterans died by suicide each day. Six of the 20 were users of VHA services.  

 In 2014, Veterans accounted for 18 percent of all deaths by suicide among U.S. adults and constituted 8.5 percent of the U.S. adult population (ages 18+). In 2010, Veterans accounted for 20.2 percent of all deaths by suicide and represented 9.7 percent of the U.S. adult population.  

 The burden of suicide resulting from firearm injuries remains high. In 2014, about 67 percent of all Veteran deaths by suicide were the result of firearm injuries. 

 There is continued evidence of a high burden of suicide among middle-aged and older Veterans. In 2014, about 65 percent of all Veterans who died by suicide were age 50 or older. 

 After adjusting for differences in age and gender, risk for suicide was 21 percent higher among Veterans when compared with U.S. civilian adults. (2014) 

 After adjusting for differences in age, risk for suicide was 18 percent higher among male Veterans when compared with U.S. civilian adult males. (2014) 

 After adjusting for differences in age, risk for suicide was 2.4 times higher among female Veterans when compared with U.S. civilian adult females. (2014) 

 In 2014, rates of suicide were highest among younger Veterans (ages 18–29) and lowest among older Veterans (ages 60+). Furthermore, rates of suicide among Veterans age 70 and older were lower than rates of suicide among civilians in the same age group.

And the problem on that one is while there are over 5 million less veterans alive in this country now than in 1999, the number is the same. Follow that up with over a decade of people claiming they are doing something new, which, again, isn't factual either.

This is from the article,

A unique movement is underway to help those who deserve it the most.
“I was two months into being 17, and joined the Navy Reserve,” Vietnam veteran Frank Thompson said.

It isn't unique. Another Vietnam veteran started doing peer support from a spiritual standpoint, which experts knew was necessary. Point Man International Ministries started working with all generations of veterans and their families. The key number here is 1984 and is still going on. I'm a part of this effort to empower healers to do the work that anyone wanting to change the outcome can do. Sorry "awareness raisers" but takes a lot more work to change something than just talk about the problem.

This is all, too often, heartbreaking work, especially if you are actually paying attention to reports and investing the time to learn the truth. It is always frustrating when searching for solutions or even hope that we can change the outcome, only to discover a poorly written news article getting in the way.

Is this really mattered, Morgan Lentes would have been able to decide to at least invest the time in finding an image with the same number that followed it on the article she wrote.

It also looks like this article does not have anything to back it up.

"Many of the vets they’re helping did not want to take part in this story. Alexander said many of them are too ashamed to admit they are struggling."

Is it possible that the veterans do not want to talk to a reporter? Sure! Most won't. Most of the veterans and families we work with are private people looking for help. Then why do the story if it cannot be verified?

Ok, so, we know peer support works but what works best is for one generation to help the other, side by side as not just an example, but so the newer veterans learn easier from their experiences. After all, our generation took this on when the internet did not exist and we had better results.

One more thing on veterans talking about what works publicly, is this Marine. 



Keep in mind that just because we don't pull stunts, call in reporters or hold massive fundraisers, that isn't because we don't believe in what we're doing. It means we believe the work is a lot more vital than anything else!

The only number you need to know about veterans committing suicide is yours! There is absolutely no way to ever know exactly how many veterans commit suicide. How about changing the conversation to what we really do know?

We know that life matters so much, these veterans were willing to die to save someone else and ended up dying because their own life didn't matter to them anymore. They believed they didn't matter enough for someone to help them; they didn't want to be a "burden" or bother anyone; or believed they were beyond help.

We know that during combat, they did not simply surrender to the enemy or take their own lives instead of fighting with everything they had within them. Yet these same veterans did surrender to the enemy within them when they could not find the will to go on fighting for themselves.

We know the stigma is alive and well while they are not. They did not know what PTSD actually was or that they could take control of their lives back instead of taking their own lives.

We know they were part of a military family, able to depend on each other, knowing others were equally willing to die for them, but not knowing they would be able to listen to them.

We know that when it comes to veteran families left behind, the only number they care about is on the tombstone while wondering about what could have changed the expiration date.

Woman, husband in fatal Norfolk shooting were both in Navy

Not sure on this one since one part has "Nelson was pronounced dead at the scene. Her husband was in critical condition..." but beginning says "husband was treated and released."

Woman, husband in fatal Norfolk shooting were both in Navy
Associated Press
July 18, 2017

NORFOLK, Va. — The U.S. Navy says a woman fatally shot by Virginia police after she shot and wounded her husband was an active duty sailor, as is her husband.

In this May 3, 2004 file photo, security personnel wait to inspect vehicles entering Norfolk Naval Station in Norfolk, Va. MORT FRYMAN/THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT (TNS)

Navy spokesman Matthew Allen said Tuesday that the husband, who was treated and released by a hospital after Monday night's shooting, is assigned to a unit on Naval Station Norfolk. Police in Virginia have not identified him.

Virginia State Police said that 25-year-old India N. Nelson had been in a domestic dispute with her husband on Monday in Norfolk. At about 7 p.m. that evening, she and her husband were driving separate cars when they crashed into each other near a gate at Norfolk Naval Station.

After Norfolk police responded and began to investigate, state police said Nelson shot her husband. Authorities said a Norfolk police officer then "engaged the woman and returned fire."
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Marine Killed by Lightning

NC-based Marine killed by lightning strike while working on Osprey

CBS WNCN News

July 17, 2017

JACKSONVILLE, N.C. (WNCT) — A Marine stationed aboard Marine Corps Air Station New River died after being struck by lightning while working on an MV-22 Osprey aircraft on July 11, according to the 2nd Marine Aircraft Wing.

Corp. James in a WNCT photo. 

Corp. Skyler James, a tilt-rotor mechanic assigned to Marine Medium Tiltrotor Squadron 261, Marine Aircraft Group 26, and another Marine were struck by lightning while working on the aircraft.

Following the incident, they were transported to Camp Lejeune Naval Hospital where they were evaluated for serious injuries.

The other Marine was released, while James was subsequently transported to UNC Health Center for further treatment.

Following several days of treatment and evaluation, James was declared dead.

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