Monday, November 10, 2008

Blizzard at Pine Ridge Indian Reservation leaves Wanblee suffering

Spread this around so that the government will get their act in gear and take care of our fellow Americans who are suffering! Five days! This is not acceptable!

Blizzard hits Wanblee residents hard
By Scott Aust and Barbara Soderlin, Journal staff
Monday, November 10, 2008
Spending five days without electricity or running water has been an ordeal for people in Wanblee on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation.

Up to 200 people have been spending the night at the Crazy Horse school, at first without blankets or beds, cooking the school's food, diapering babies with old clothes, and trying to stay warm through power from a generator.

The makeshift shelter is being run by Pastor Gus Craven, who has also been helping residents make runs between their homes and the shelter, and who went to Kadoka Friday night on newly opened roads to get cots and blankets from that community's Red Cross.

He said he isn't sure when Wanblee will get power. On his trip to Kadoka he saw perhaps 20 downed power lines.

Most Wanblee residents don't have the gas or money to make the 56-mile round trip to Kadoka themselves, he said.

And some are afraid to leave, since there have been reports of people looting empty homes, he said. Craven said several families have dropped their elders and children off at the shelter and returned to their cold, dark homes to protect them from thieves.

Some relief came Saturday for the people at the shelter when the Black Hills chapter of the Red Cross sent blankets, water and toiletries. The state emergency management department planned to send food and diapers Saturday, said Russ Korzeniewski with the Red Cross. Craven didn't know Saturday evening if those supplies had arrived. He said the school was not out of food but there was not an excess, either.
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Greek and Armenian priests fight at Church of Holy Sepulcher

This is from Air America. While I agree with them on a lot of things, faith is not one of them. I'm posting this from their site because they found it first and had a link to the video, which I will put up in a little bit. As a Greek Orthodox Christian, this is not what Christ had in mind.
Holy Brawl at Holy Site
By Beau Friedlander
Armenian and Greek Orthodox monks were the feature fight at the Church of the Holy Sepulcher, beating the holy crap out of each other in a turf war that would have made Pontius Pilate proud.

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Advocating for Napa’s veterans

A wonderful story of a veteran serving veterans everyday, not just one. This was also written by a wonderful friend, Lily Casura who blogs at Healing Combat Trauma. Consider this. When my brother passed away last month, I had to fly back to Massachusetts. Lily was attending to some family business in Rhode Island. She is such a dear friend that she drove up to see me and attended the wake. While we've been emailing and talking on the phone for a few years, we never met. Lily did all that just to support me in my time of need. She's an amazing woman with a heart of gold!

Advocating for Napa’s veterans
By LILY G. CASURA
For the Register
Patrick Jolly is so dedicated to helping veterans, he even started opening a claim for one he happened to meet while standing in line during a vacation at Disneyland.

Jolly, a Vietnam Navy vet, has been Napa County’s Veteran Services Officer (VSO) since 2006, when he came to Napa from years spent doing the same job in Sonoma County.
Today, 11,000 Napa veterans of various wars as far back as World War II — or 25,000 people, if you include veterans’ family members — rely on Jolly to get the straight scoop about filing claims, getting benefits approved and learning what they’re entitled to.

“We’re very lucky to have him,” said Carol Sanders, senior office assistant with Napa’s Comprehensive Services for Older Adults, who is herself a six-year veteran of the Air Force. “He cares so much about his clientele,” she says, adding, “As a veteran myself, I appreciate that he’s here for county veterans.”

Jolly arrives in his office before 7 a.m. most mornings to respond to the many needs of local veterans. He gets an average of 300 phone calls a month — just transcribing the messages veterans and their families leave on his voicemail takes up multiple pages of a legal pad daily. The best way to get in touch with Jolly is actually by email — vets@napavets.com — because he can’t pick up the phone when he’s with a client, or when he’s researching a veteran’s claim.

Jolly spends the bulk of his time in the office, but sometimes he goes to convalescent homes to meet with veterans, or even makes house calls to consult with those who aren’t able to make it into his office in downtown Napa. He also heads to the Veterans Home in Yountville frequently. There’s a memorial service there every month for the often eight to 12 veterans who have died the month before. Jolly is such a treasured friend that periodically he’s asked to do a veteran’s eulogy, or present the memorial flag to the family member.
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Video: Obama arrives at White House


Video: Obama arrives at White House
Obama arrives at White House for first visit as president-elect
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Published: Monday November 10, 2008
WASHINGTON (AFP) – Barack Obama arrived at the White House on Monday for his first visit as president-elect ahead of talks with President George W. Bush, who leaves office in January.

Just six days after he beat Republican John McCain in the presidential election, Obama, accompanied by his wife Michelle, was greeted by Bush at the South Portico of the presidential mansion, after flying in from Chicago.
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Dying veteran sent from Tampa VA to hospice died without breathing machine

Transfer of VA patient goes awry
By William R. Levesque, Times staff writer
In print: Sunday, November 9, 2008


TAMPA — His body racked by vascular disease, 85-year-old Varrian "Otto" Wigner struggled with every breath.

Doctors at the James A. Haley VA Medical Center in Tampa could do little for him. They suggested the World War II veteran be sent to a hospice. Wigner's wife agreed but said she insisted on one condition:

The breathing device that eased her husband's suffering and helped keep him alive must be waiting for him. Haley didn't object.

But the device wasn't waiting on Aug. 29. The hospice immediately tried to get Haley to take Wigner back, his widow said.

Haley refused, his wife said, and Wigner died in less than 24 hours.

"They dumped him like garbage on the street," said Alina Wigner, 76, of Weeki Wachee, Wigner's wife of 53 years. "I never thought the VA would let him down like this."

The case is the third detailed by the St. Petersburg Times in recent months about allegations of poor patient care or veterans who said Haley was too busy to treat them.
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Search for bodies begins in St. Petersburg after fire

Search for bodies begins in St. Pete
"I opened my door and the hallway was smoky," Douglas Parks, 41, said. "I looked out back and black smoke was just rolling over the fence. I said, 'this baby is on fire' and dialed 911." Four minutes after the call, firefighters were on the scene battling the blaze. It took more than 100 firefighters to quench the blaze.

Miriam Makeba dies after collapsing on stage

Legendary singer collapses on stage, dies
Miriam Makeba dies after collapsing on stage
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Miriam Makeba was leading South African singer, world music pioneer

Makeba had Top 20 U.S. hit with "Pata Pata" in 1967

Singer was banned from home country for 30 years under apartheid


JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) -- Miriam Makeba, the South African singer who wooed the world with her sultry voice but was banned from her own country for more than 30 years under apartheid, died after collapsing on stage in Italy. She was 76.

In her dazzling career, Makeba performed with musical legends from around the world -- jazz maestros Nina Simone and Dizzy Gillespie, Harry Belafonte, Paul Simon -- and sang for world leaders such as John F. Kennedy and Nelson Mandela.

"Her haunting melodies gave voice to the pain of exile and dislocation which she felt for 31 long years. At the same time, her music inspired a powerful sense of hope in all of us," Mandela said in a statement.

He said it was "fitting" that her last moments were spent on stage.
Watch "Mama Africa" reflect on her career »
The Pineta Grande clinic in Castel Volturno, near the southern city of Naples, said Makeba died early Monday of a heart attack.
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Police say Fort Sill has a gang problem

Lawton police say Sill has a gang problem

The Associated Press
Posted : Monday Nov 10, 2008 7:51:29 EST

LAWTON, Okla. — Lawton police say the Fort Sill Army post is home to many soldiers who also are gang members, but post officials dispute that claim.

Lt. Darrell Southerland, a 20-year police veteran who oversees the Lawton Gang Task Force Unit, said his six-member unit has routinely gathered and shared evidence with Fort Sill officials about soldiers stationed at Fort Sill who also are gang members.

He said evidence has been obtained through traffic stops and arrests and includes photos of gang-related tattoos and information from informants.

“People don’t want to face the truth, but it’s true,” Southerland said. “Fort Sill has a problem with gangs. We see it every Friday and Saturday night on the streets. But nobody wants to listen.”

Fort Sill spokesman Jon Long disagrees.
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Congratulations Keith Olbermann!

Keith, I watched you since you started with Countdown. You really won my heart as soon as you took on what was happening to the veterans before any other station was reporting on it. You are a joy with your sense of humor, your intelligence, but most of all your compassion. Congratulations on the contract and may you enjoy many more viewers.

MSNBC 'votes for four more years' of Olbermann
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Published: Monday November 10, 2008


Firebrand MSNBC host Keith Olbermann will be hosting Countdown for at another four years, the network announced Monday.

Network president Phil Griffin called Olbermann "the core of MSNBC's current success." The anchor's impassioned rants aimed at President Bush, John McCain and Republicans in general coincided with a significant uptick in the third-place cable network's ratings.

"I'm delighted that we can continue to lock Countdown into the nation's political dialogue through at least the next election," Olbermann said in a news release. "Personally, I noticed that as of about six weeks ago, I'd been doing this show longer than I did SportsCenter, so it's delightful to have a true home."
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Off duty Marines saved lives in Orange County fire

Marines save the day in Orange County fire
Associated Press

Monday, November 10, 2008

(11-10) 04:00 PST Lake Forest, Orange County -- A half-dozen off-duty Marines who raced through a burning motel on Sunday warning sleeping guests that it was on fire were hailed as lifesaving heroes.

Everyone escaped the Americas Best Value Inn motel, including one elderly man who required oxygen after he was carried to safety by one of the Marines. The cause of the fire, which ignited shortly before 8 a.m., was under investigation.

Marine Pvt. Colton Oliver said he and two colleagues were walking along a second-floor landing about 8 a.m. when they saw flames and smoke. They rousted their fellow Marines and all six began knocking on doors and windows of rooms, urging people to leave.

"Everybody was out by the time the firefighters got here," Oliver said. "It's what we're trained to do."

Amy Amadito-Phelps said she and her husband and 14-month-old son were sleeping in a room near the flames when they were awakened. She said the Marines saved their lives.
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Seek treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder

Seek treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder
El Paso Times - El Paso,TX,USA


Seek treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder
Dr. Robert L. Anders / Special to the Times
Article Launched: 11/10/2008 12:00:00 AM MST


EL PASO -- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) has received a significant amount of attention as a result of recent reports outlining the increasing number of men and women returning from war zones with PTSD.

PTSD is an anxiety disorder associated with a dramatic event in which the person experiences the threat of death or serious injury.

In spring 2007, the RAND Center for Military Health Policy Research reported that of the 1.64 million military service members deployed to war zones, 14 percent have screened positive for PTSD and another 14 percent for major depression.

However, the disorder is not limited to soldiers in war zones. In the United States, the most common cause for PTSD exposure is automobile accidents. According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, about 2.5 million people are injured in automobile accidents annually. It is estimated that about 20 percent of those in automobile accidents suffer from the disorder.

PTSD is a biological disorder which can be manifested from exposure to excessive levels of stress. Basically, the body's stress response system is overloaded.

Symptoms of PTSD include insomnia, nightmares, flashbacks of the traumatic event, startling easily, avoiding a situation that reminds the individual of the traumatic episode, difficulty in concentrating, emotional withdrawal, aggression and irritability.

According to a recent study by the Geisinger Health Systems, Vietnam veterans with a history of PTSD had a 50 percent chance of dying from heart disease in their 50s compared to those veterans without the disorder. Many individuals with PTSD delay treatment and thus may manage their symptoms with drugs and/or alcohol.
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Pfc. Steve Egoavil awarded Soldier's Medal for heroic actions

101st CAB members awarded Soldier's Medal, other honors
November 9, 2008


Highlights of the 101st Combat Aviation Brigade's deployment to Afghanistan, compiled from 101st Airborne Division Public Affairs reports.

Army Soldier's Medal
Sept. 20, 2008, BAGRAM AIR FIELD, Afghanistan — Smoke rose in thick, dark wisps as bricks, wood and stones lay scattered around a darkened crevice.

A charred shell that was once a small vehicle lay nearby and an enormous hole exposed the bare insides of the targeted building.

Inside, a humvee turret was lying beside the cabinets of what was once a kitchen, evidence of the deadly force of the explosion.

When a suicide vehicle-borne improvised explosive device detonated 15 meters from the Sabari District Center just before 4 p.m., on March 3, 2008, the blast leveled the building's entire southern wall and destroyed a nearby humvee.

"We received the emergency call during a fast-roping exercise," said Pfc. Steve Egoavil, F Company, 5th Battalion, 101st Aviation Regiment, 101st Combat Aviation Brigade as he recalled the emergency mission his unit responded to Khost province, in early March.

For his heroic actions recovering, treating and evacuating trapped and wounded soldiers during an emergency personnel recovery mission, Egoavil was awarded the Army Soldier's Medal during a ceremony, Sept. 19, 2008, at Forward Operating Base Salerno. He was presented the award by Brig. Gen. James McConville, deputy commanding general-support for Combined Joint Task Force-101.
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Army of angels give Staff Sergeant Robert Toland home makeover

Home Makeover For Ailing Soldier
WGRZ-TV - Buffalo,NY,USA
By: Ron Plants
Friends, volunteers, contractors, and businesses donated their money, materials, and labor to help produce a miracle makeover for the home of a soldier and father of three who was recently diagnosed with a terminal form of cancer.

The organization known as Christian Youth Corps teamed up with Josh Borycki to assist the family of his childhood friend, Army Staff Sergeant Robert Toland. They realized Toland and his wife and three children would need help in fixing up his parents home in Strykersville, Wyoming County which he recently purchased.

So they came up with the idea of sending Toland and his family on a dream vacation to Disneyworld in Florida. The family agreed to go with the knowledge that the group would help repair the home's septic system. What they did not know is that a small army of contractors, volunteers, and businesses would descend upon the home and renovate it during the week while they were gone.
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Bandits kidnap Catholic nuns in Kenya

Bandits kidnap Catholic nuns in Kenya
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Suspected Somalian bandits kidnap two Catholic nuns in northern Kenya

Abduction happened at Catholic mission in Kenyan town of El Wak

Area wracked by clashes among various clans
NAIROBI, Kenya (CNN) -- Italy's foreign minister is working with Kenyan authorities to secure the release of two Italian nuns, who were kidnapped Monday by suspected Somalian bandits, according to the foreign ministry in Rome.

A Kenya Red Cross spokesman said the two Catholic nuns were abducted from the Catholic mission in the northern Kenyan town of El Wak, just over two kilometers (one mile) from the border with Somalia.
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Overseas absentee votes double 2004 totals

Overseas absentee votes double 2004 totals

By Karen Jowers - Staff writer
Posted : Monday Nov 10, 2008 9:27:15 EST

The Military Postal Service Agency returned 519,032 overseas absentee ballots to local election offices as of Nov. 4, more than 2½ times the total of 203,233 returned in the 2004 election, officials said.

MPSA reported that 415,428 absentee ballots went by mail to APO and FPO addresses between Sept. 8 and Nov. 4 of this year, said Shari Lawrence, Army Human Resources Command spokeswoman, more than twice the total of 205,418 sent out in the same time period in 2004.

Some people were able to get ballots electronically, depending on the state. That’s why nearly 105,000 more ballots were received by local election officials this year than were mailed through the military postal system to APO/FPO addresses.

Also, an estimated 10,000 overseas voters sent ballots by FedEx under a partnership with the Overseas Vote Foundation and the express shipper, which offered free or discounted delivery of ballots from 89 countries.
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Ex-servicemen hope president-elect focuses on military issues


This young boy, turned into the man I married. He came home in 1971 from Vietnam. I've been doing outreach work with veterans who have PTSD ever since the day we met 26 years ago.

While all veterans have my heart, the Vietnam Veterans have tugged at my soul. Understand that this is coming from someone who has dedicated her life to our veterans. I take all of this very seriously, spend countless hours researching history as well as what the politicians do and fail to do. The following defense of President Elect Obama does not come without facts that can be found by anyone willing to look for them. Most of the links are on this blog.

There is a comment in this article claiming that Obama has not done anything for veterans since he entered into the senate. This is a false claim and spun by the GOP. I've heard it all too often. The fact is when Obama had many options of choosing which committees to serve on, he wanted to serve on the Veterans Affairs Committee. Aside from his grandfather and uncle being veterans, his heart was with our veterans. Obama was advised that the Veteran's Affairs Committee was not a high profile committee but it was where he felt he was called to.

Up until the Democrats took control, albeit limited in the Senate, mountains have been moved for the sake of our veterans. From the largest budget increase in history for the VA, to programs gearing up to help veterans with PTSD and TBI, to all the advances in research, Veteran's Centers opening up and the GI Bill, Obama has been a big part of all of that. He did not do anything with the glare of the media focused on him but did so quietly believing it is the obligation of this nation to take care of our veterans. I have watched this man since the day he was elected to the senate and have read his speeches as well as interviews he's given. He is the real deal when it comes to our veterans and our nation as a whole. He has not paid lip service to our veterans in the past and will not in the future.

Most of the claims against him have come from people who also believed that McCain, as a veteran, had the interests of veterans in his own heart, yet he has only provided lip service to them. From the POW's returning from Iraq after the Gulf War, going to court to sue the Iraqi government, McCain was not fighting for them when Bush killed the law suit. McCain's voting record against veterans and what they need has been deplorable no matter what he or anyone in the GOP claim. The facts speak for themselves. There is a grand delusion that has been harming our veterans for too many years. Don't believe me. Instead look up their voting records for yourself and find out who has been providing lip service and nothing more from those who have done the work on behalf of veterans. If you have not been keeping informed of what the reality is, you will be astonished at how wrong you've been.





Vets hope Obama fulfills promises
Ex-servicemen hope president-elect focuses on military issues
By CAITLIN CROWLEY
Staff writer

Like many in the region, local veterans are hoping last week's election of Barack Obama as president will bring change for the country -- specifically, for the country's veterans and military men and women.

In the days between the presidential election and the Veterans Day holiday, area vets expressed their hopes for the new administration.

Bernard Williamson, of the Veterans of Foreign Wars McEvoy-Dempsey Post 10585 in Derby, said he hopes Obama will work on a few issues that Bush's administration hurt instead of helped.

"Bush's administration closed Veterans' Affairs hospitals, decreased veterans' benefits, and didn't help veterans wage-wise," said Williamson.

Williamson is also concerned about troops overseas, saying he hopes Obama will "do something for men and women in service right now."

Tim Kelly, 61, of the Connecticut branch of Disabled American Veterans, also is interested in seeing how the Obama administration handles decisions about veterans and the military. Like Williamson, Kelly hopes Obama doesn't cut funding for veterans.

And, as a Vietnam veteran, he is worried about how Obama will handle the war in Iraq. "I hope they don't just go in there and withdraw troops and waste 4,000 lives," said Kelly, referring to the men and women who have already died in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

World War II combat veteran Joseph Minto, 87, has one simple hope for the Obama administration. "I hope he fulfills his promises,"


Minto said. "He promised everyone something, so I don't know if he will come through."

Some, like Kelly, said they can't predict what Obama will actually do for veterans. He said he doesn't know what to expect from Obama because he hasn't done anything to be judged on.

"We really don't know because he didn't do anything for us while in the Senate," Kelly said, adding, "there's a lot of lip service with the Democrats but they never do anything."

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GoDaddy.com has birthday message for the US Marines



Dear Kathie Costos,

November 10, 2008 marks the 233rd birthday of the United States Marine Corps.

To celebrate this occasion Go Daddy is proud once again to release a special birthday tribute to the Corps.

For those of you who served or are serving in other branches of our military, please accept this salute to the Marines also as a salute to the Army, Navy, Air Force and Coast Guard. The reason I prepared this salute to the Marine Corps was simply because I served in the Corps and it was in the Corps that I grew up and became a man. Please know, I have the utmost respect and admiration for everyone in our military - past and present.

Finally, a special message to my brothers and sisters who served our country in Viet Nam; thanks for all you did, WELCOME HOME!

To see this year's tribute, please click the button below.
Happy 233nd
Birthday to the United States Marine Corps!



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Sunday, November 9, 2008

Final Salute for Lance Cpl. Luis Palacios Vietnam MIA laid to rest



Mark Boster / Los Angeles Times
BACK HOME: Yolanda Montiel and her grandson Michael Montiel grieve during graveside services for her brother, Marine Lance Cpl. Luis Fernando Palacios, who was 19 when his helicopter crashed during the Vietnam War in 1968.
Marine killed in Vietnam 40 years ago gets a final salute as his remains are buried in Cypress
By Raja Abdulrahim Sat, 8 Nov 2008 10:10:16 PM
Lance Cpl. Luis Palacios, who died in a helicopter crash, is honored with a full military burial. A U.S. search team recently recovered his remains, which were identified through DNA.
By Raja Abdulrahim
November 9, 2008

Yolanda Montiel was only 10 years old when her older brother Luis Palacios was killed in Vietnam. Her memories of him are few but endearing, like the time he bought her a yellow hat or when he gave her piggyback rides.

Over the years, Yolanda's siblings and her late mother would tell her stories about Luis, which included the nickname he gave her.


"I didn't remember who used to call me rag doll," she said, "and it was him."

The day the family learned that Luis had been killed, a relative came to Yolanda's school to pick her up and on the way home tried to explain death.

The 19-year-old Marine was on a rescue mission on June 6, 1968, when his helicopter was hit by enemy fire and crashed. Lance Cpl. Luis Palacios was one of four passengers on the downed aircraft presumed dead but whose bodies were not found.


Then, in early September, Yolanda's family received the news they had been waiting for for 40 years: a U.S. search team had found some of Luis' remains. He was identified through a DNA sample that Yolanda had given to the Joint POW/MIA Accounting Command more than a decade earlier.

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Lynn MA dedicates city squares to two who fell in Vietnam

Lynn dedicates city squares to two who fell in Vietnam
Lasting tribute
Years after two servicemen from Lynn died in Vietnam, the city dedicates veterans squares in their honor at the housing project where they grew up


By Kathy McCabe
Globe Staff / November 9, 2008

On his second tour of duty in Vietnam, Marine Lance Corporal John D. Evans took a boat about a mile down the Cua Viet River to see Dick Donahue, a boyhood pal from Lynn who had enlisted with him on the buddy plan. It was Jan. 31, 1968.

"He asked for a pass to go see his 'foster brother' - that's how close we were," said Donahue, now 61. "I was on my first tour. Since he had already been there, I think he came to assure me that things were going to be all right."

When it came time to leave, the two Marines, wearing helmets, rifles, and flak jackets, hugged. Evans walked up a dusty red-dirt road.

"We waved to each other until we were out of sight," Donahue recalled. "It was not a see you later wave, it was a goodbye wave."

Evans was killed two days later, on Feb. 2, in an early-morning attack on his unit in Quang Tri Province. He was 22.

"The enemy hit with heavy artillery while they slept," Donahue said. "John was one of the first to die."

Forty years later, Evans, along with another fallen Vietnam veteran from Lynn, Army Corporal James J. Hazard, received a salute from their hometown. Veterans squares were dedicated to each at Curwin Circle, the public housing complex in West Lynn where they grew up.

Hazard was killed in ground warfare in Cambodia on May 20, 1970, just two months after he arrived in the war zone. He was 20.
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For local Iraq vet and his mom, the healing never ends

For local Iraq vet and his mom, the healing never ends
Four years after Rory Dunn was blown up by a bomb in Iraq, the publicity that surrounded his miraculous survival has faded. Meanwhile, Dunn rebuilds his life and his mother copes with what it means to be the parent of a wounded veteran.

By Cara Solomon

Seattle Times staff reporter



There he stands, Renton's Hometown Hero, tall, broad, handsome.

It's taken four years for Rory Dunn to put on this uniform, a reminder of the ugly days in Iraq. He's different now — 26 years old, with four pieces of shrapnel in his head. A missing eye. A rebuilt forehead. Deaf in one ear.

He could have skipped the parade, but older veterans wanted him here — and what else does he have planned? It's a break from his routine, watching sitcoms, walking to the grocery store, waiting for a friend to pick him up.

So Rory lets another veteran pin the Purple Heart on his Army uniform. He poses for a picture with a toddler beside the military trucks, and when the music starts, and the parade moves down the street, it feels kind of good. He struts.

Behind retired Spc. Rory Dunn, just a few steps behind, is his mother. The woman who watched over him at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, D.C., for nearly a year. The one who saw his chin tremble at night, the tears stream down his face. She taught him to walk in the world again.

Cynthia Lefever, 57, hears the clapping, and yes, it sounds nice. But attention like this is fleeting. More than four years after a bomb blew Rory up in Iraq, the media flits in and out of their lives, covering the miraculous recovery of the man who was not supposed to live. Friends have fallen away.

And mother and son are still trying to find their footing. Some days are better than others.

So Cynthia is not looking for admiration from this crowd. She is looking for appreciation. Does anyone out there understand what has happened to her child?
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