Vietnam Veteran Fighting For Wife's Life

CentraCare, St. Cloud man clash on plan for wife's care 
St. Cloud Times
Kevin Allenspach
February 1, 2015

Charles Holmes communicates with his wife, Tahnee Hughes-Holmes, in their home Jan. 22 in St. Cloud. Hughes-Holmes was paralyzed in a car accident and then suffered a cardiac arrest just over a year ago.
(Photo: Dave Schwarz)

Charles Holmes has disagreed with CentraCare about a potential care plan that would deny life-saving measures for his wife, Tahnee Hughes-Holmes, who is a quadriplegic and dependent on a ventilator.

For almost half her life, Tahnee Hughes-Holmes has lived as a quadriplegic in St. Cloud.

A victim of a drunken driver, she was able to maneuver in a motorized wheelchair, go garage-saling or to the movies for almost 20 years after becoming paralyzed. And she was known for speaking her mind.

That changed a little more than a year ago when she suffered a cardiac arrest while in St. Cloud Hospital, resulting in a brain injury that has made her dependent on a ventilator and robbed her of speech.

Since a monthlong hospitalization last fall, the 46-year-old has lived at home the south edge of St. Cloud. Her constant companion, other than a rotation of personal care attendants, is her husband, Charles Holmes, who has been by her side since 1991.

Holmes knows what it's like to suffer. He served in the Army in the late 1970s and said he was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder in 1997, years after he moved to Central Minnesota to get treatment through the St. Cloud VA Health Care System. Holmes went from job to job until going on disability in 2002. He said the PTSD is rooted in his service, but didn't want to elaborate.
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