Had-it helps veterans vent and get support

If you are overwhelmed by the number of support groups online, you may have missed Hadit but it is one of the best places to go to find support for what you are going thru. Usually someone has some good advice or at least shares their own experiences so you know you are not alone.

I find myself short and don't want to tolarate BS. Including Mom's, and friends, my solution is to cut them out of my life, and vice versa. My voice raises gradually, but.I am not angry, and my juices start flowing, just like a mission. How I feel? Relieved, blood pressure down couple points, but I really don't feel bad. I love my Mom but we are opposite, she is passive aggressive, and I still am like the military. Now I have several friends we speake on the phone, but the are all military. Even thou I cut a military out also.

What's wrong with me? Am I getting more mental from my PTSD like don't care, I say that a lot, " it does not matter " now I am going to have my Dad disappointed in me, another reason to cut him out. I just don't care, suicidal is not in my doing due to my faith, but ridding fast living on the edge is ok.

I am still going throught treatment for a full.stomack and partial spleen removal. The chemo and radiation is still in me. What is wrong with me? You guys know, you have done countless counseling in your time. Help me. I am not going back to V.A.

If you go into a site and see people sharing their heartache but no one seems to really care, that isn't the place where you will get what you need. Before you join a site read what veterans say but then read what kind of comments follow. If they are helpful then the site tends to be helpful but if the responses are more venting or bumper slogan types, move on. You won't get much out of your time and whatever trouble you are having will not ease up.